Everyone has one aspect of their life they wish could be better. Generally speaking, this is something you wish to attain or a goal you would like to reach. This might be finding love, earning more money, having better sex, losing weight, or quitting a bad habit, like smoking. As you're reading this, it's likely you can already think of at least one thing you wish you could have. I can guarantee you, whatever your desires or needs might be, there is a crystal that can help. In fact, we have an entire Crystal Reference Guide built for this exact purpose. However, this will be a more direct, quick guide.
What Crystal Will Help Me Most?
Look at the list below a click on what it is in your life that you're trying to attain. What would make you happier or feel more fulfilled? What is it that you're looking for that will make you feel more complete?
You can choose multiple desires and crystals. However, we recommend focusing on one goal at a time unless they are related, i.e. building confidence and finding love can be a common goal. For whichever you choose, click on the link and you'll be taken directly to that section telling you which crystal to use. For seeking out desires, wants, and goals, these crystals should be used as personal talismans. They should be kept on your person or around you most of the day. For this reason, we try to suggest small pieces that are easy to carry or crystals that you can wear such as pendants or bracelets.
• I'm looking for love.
• I need more self-confidence.
• I want to earn more money.
• I'm looking to quit a bad habit.
• I want to lose weight.
• I'm trying to have a better sex life.
• I'm trying to conceive/have a baby.
• I want to improve my overall health.
• I'm trying to improve my relationship.
• I want more friends in my life.
I'm looking for love.
You need a Rose Quartz Worry Stone or Rose Quartz Tumbled Set if you're looking to carry your talisman. Otherwise, use a Rose Quartz Heart Pendant, Rose Quartz Point Pendant, or Rose Quartz Chip Bracelet.
Called the Heart Stone, Rose Quartz may have been used as a love token as early as 600 B.C. and is still an important talisman of relationships. It is quite effective in attracting new love, romance, and intimacy. Rose Quartz is also a stone for those unable to experience the joy of living because of never having had love given to them, possibly missing the love and nurturing as a child that is vital for the development of security and a positive self-image. Rose Quartz is the healer for these internal wounds, erasing the primal imprints and reprogramming the heart to accept the infinite source of love that comes from within the self. Only after learning to give love to the self is it possible to truly love others.
I need more self-confidence.
Natural Citrine is an excellent crystal for those who are overly sensitive and extremely vulnerable to outside energies and influences. Worn, carried, or used in crystal healing, the radiant yellow color will increase the amount of light surrounding the body and protect the aura. It is also a good talisman to have in situations where one needs to feel confident and secure. Carrying a Citrine attracts love and happiness, and guards against those who would break your heart. It is also an effective shield against spite and jealousy.
For added power, try adding our Rose Quartz, Kunzite, and Lepidolite Tea for Self-love at least a couple of times per week. You can also try a Confidence Grid Kit or Premium Crystal Elixir for Confidence.
I want to earn more money.
You need a Green Aventurine Tumbled Set or Green Aventurine Heart if you're looking to carry your talisman. Otherwise, use a Green Aventurine Heart Pendant, Green Aventurine Point Pendant, or Green Aventurine Chip Bracelet instead.
Green Aventurine is known as the “Stone of Opportunity,” thought to be the luckiest of all crystals, especially in manifesting prosperity and wealth, or for increasing favor in competitions or games of chance. Its winning energy makes it a great ally for boosting one’s chances in any situation - a first date, tax audit, even landing a promotion. One needs only to be near it to derive its benefits. This beautiful stone, however, is not merely an attractor of luck, but one that aligns conditions so “opportunity” is inevitable. Green Aventurine releases old patterns, habits and disappointments so new growth can take place. It brings optimism and a zest for life, allowing one to move forward with confidence and to embrace change. It enhances one’s creativity and motivation, and encourages perseverance in maneuvering life’s obstacles.
For added power, try adding our Moldavite, Green Aventurine, & Quartz Tea for Good Fortune at least a couple of times per week. You can also try the Premium Crystal Elixir for Good Fortune.
I'm looking to quit a bad habit.
In antiquity, as well as today, Carnelian is believed to help timid speakers become both eloquent and bold. Ancient Warriors wore Carnelian around their necks for courage and physical power to conquer their enemies. In Egypt, it was worn by master architects to show their rank of builder, and alchemists of the Middle Ages used it as a boiling stone to activate the energy of other Chalcedonies. As the first stone in the breastplate of the High Priest, it signified the blood of the martyrs and was once believed to prevent illness and the Plague. Carnelian is said to provide excellent support for detoxifying from alcohol or other drugs, breaking bad physical habits, and works to improve overall health in general.
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I want to lose weight.
Ruby also sustains and protects those with sensitive natures and distorted views of themselves or others. It overcomes fears of being “ugly” or unloved and is particularly empowering for those who hold excess weight in the body in order to ground in the physical world. It releases destructive emotional holds and is a powerful stone for developing a more loving attitude toward oneself and the physical body. Ruby may also be used to assist in weight regulation, especially when emotional eating is a cause.
I'm trying to have a better sex life.
You need a Red Creek Jasper Heart, Red Jasper Tumbled Stone Set, or Red Creek Jasper Palm Stone if you're looking to carry your talisman. Otherwise, use a Red Jasper Tumbled Bracelet or Red Jasper Crystal Phone Grip.
Red Jasper is a stone of passion and a token of all who consummate love. It encourages control in all things, and thus calms sexual aggressiveness, promotes sexual compatibility, and enhances tantric sex. It may assist women in overcoming a jealous love rival or unfair opposition to a relationship. Red Jasper can re-activate a passion for living when one is feeling blue or unemotional, apathetic, or spiritually defunct, and is commonly used to spark sexual or creative energies. It assists in identifying one’s personal ideas and beliefs about sexual expression or orientation and helps release shame or guilt around these issues.
I'm trying to conceive/have a baby.
You need an Earth Tone Moonstone Tumbled Set or Earth Tone Moonstone Raw Crystal if you're looking to carry your talisman. Otherwise, use an Earth Tone Moonstone Bracelet or Moonstone and Smoky Quartz Prayer Beads.
Moonstone is the stone of love and eroticism, stimulating the kundalini energy and carnal desires. It is the ultimate fertility crystal. A Moonstone necklace worn during lovemaking at full moon harmonizes the body into the natural lunar cycle. Or, for fidelity or fertility, make a grid of thirteen Moonstone crystals with a circle of the twelve months around a bedroom, and one centered under the bed. Moonstone helps in attuning to the normal rhythms of the biological forces of one's body and to utilize natural energy cycles. It powerfully affects the female reproductive system, enhancing fertility and promoting ease in pregnancy and childbirth, alleviates menstrual problems and change-of-life, balances the hormonal system, and eliminates fluid retention.
I want to improve my overall health.
Chrysoprase can help speed the healing of wounds and if kept on the body can continually aid in healing. It feeds the heart and cleans the bloodstream of impurities by encouraging the proper assimilation and distribution of food-energy throughout the body-earth. Pure, apple-green chrysoprase induces tranquility in nervous, high-strung dispositions, and can be helpful in the treatment of neurosis. This stone may also be used to reduce feverish or inflammatory conditions.
I'm trying to improve my relationship.
Morganite attracts the abundance of love into one’s life and assists in maintaining that love as it continues to grow. It encourages loving thoughts and actions, consideration and responsibility, and being receptive to love from others. As a crystal of the heart, it may be used to attract one’s soul mate or in deepening a current relationship. It inspires joy and reverence for life and increases the opportunities which allow one to experience the unconditional love of the Divine. It is an ideal crystal for realizing equality in all relationships, and in developing effective but loving communication and expression. Morganite can be a remarkable crystal for attracting one’s soul-mate or deepening a current relationship, and because of its connection to Divine energies, may also be used for peace and acceptance when facing grief or deep loss
For added power, try adding our Emerald, Malachite, and Quartz Tea for Healing the Heart at least a couple of times per week. You can also try the Premium Crystal Elixir for Family Love.
I want more friends in my life.
Sunstone brings joy and friendship, pleasure, and family togetherness. It is a happy and sharing stone, integrating the parts of our communal lives, bringing things and people together. It is a stone of physical pleasure and intimacy. In lighter shades, Orange Sunstone promotes companionship and affection, while darker crystals deepen the sense of belonging and home. Sunstone is an abundance stone. It encourages independence and originality, is inspirational in revealing talents, and attracts fame and unexpected prosperity. It is an excellent "good luck" crystal. It provides a source of strength if you are dependent on others emotionally, or have suffered the sudden loss of a partner. It helps alleviate fearfulness and stress and protects against those who drain your energies or finances.