Crystals for Insecurity

crystals for insecurity

Overcoming Insecurity using Crystals

If there is one strong force behind human nature, it would be insecurity. When we are insecure with ourselves or our surroundings, it affects everything in our lives. It can affect our feelings for ourselves, our happiness, our relationships, and even our working life.

Ridding yourself of your insecurities can be a daunting task. It starts with learning to love yourself, self-acceptance, and building confidence in your abilities. While this process does take time, in the end, the rewards outweigh any effort put in.

We believe you shouldn’t have to navigate this journey all alone though and firmly trust that crystals can help. They can be a support for you through this new adventure you are embarking on and help to rid yourself of the negativity and feelings of insecurity.

When navigating the sometimes confusing and choppy waters of insecurity, we recommend the calming and tranquil color of blue. Blue crystals bring us trust, faith, and clarity. Blue is the color of ice reflecting the gradually lightening winter sky as the deep violets depart and the sun climbs higher each day. As the winter slowly gives way to the budding spring and life hastens, ready to burst forth, blue marks the beginning of life and emotion.

Use Blue Crystals for Insecurity

Blue crystals are tempered with subtlety. The color of shallow pools of water reflecting the sky, they help us reflect, ponder, question, and relax in our acceptance of the life we have.

Blue crystals are the crystals of trust. When we seek to become more sincere, act more responsibly, or become more trustworthy or faithful, these crystals give us the focus we require.

You may wonder what trust has to do with insecurity but it plays a major factor. You must trust in yourself and your abilities in order to build the confidence needed to ward off the negativity that surrounds your insecurities.

Blue Apatite

A beautiful and overwhelming sense of healing can be found in Blue Apatite. Apatite is a dual-action stone, known for its positive use of personal power to achieve goals. It clears away confusion, apathy, or negativity, then, stimulates the intellect to expand knowledge and truth, which may be used for personal growth.

Blue Apatite increases motivation and builds up energy reserves. It helps overcome self-consciousness and alienation and promotes openness and social ease. It also has an uplifting energy that raises spirits, encouraging a positive outlook and a hopeful attitude.

Blue Apatite enhances creativity and awakens the finer, inner self. It is a stone of the future and brings knowledge to those attuned to it. It may be used as an interface point between consciousness and matter to translate our humanitarian aspirations into healing, information, communication, and teaching.

Lapis Lazuli

Lapis Lazuli has been a prized stone for centuries. It is a tranquil and valuable talisman for keeping negative energy away, even if that negative energy is brought on by you.

Lapis is one of the oldest spiritual stones known to man, used by healers, priests, and royalty, for power, wisdom and to stimulate psychic abilities and inner vision. It represents universal truth.

Lapis Lazuli quickly releases stress, allowing for peace and serenity. Placed over the third eye, Lapis expands awareness and conscious attunement to the intuitive self, stimulating enlightenment and enhancing dream work.


Crystal Energy Items for Insecurity

All of these crystal items were made in collaboration with Certified Crystal Alchemists and Certified Crystal Masters.


What Other Crystal Authors Recommend

Judy Hall suggests Muscovite which is known to open up your spiritual side.

"Muscovite disperses insecurity, self-doubt, and clumsiness. It eliminates anger and nervous stress, bringing flexibility to all levels of being. It assists in looking forward joyfully to the future and back to the past to appreciate all the lessons that you have learned."



Living your life plagued with insecurities and self-doubt is no way to live. You deserve to live your life with happiness, confidence, and the belief in yourself that you can achieve anything. Insecurity can be painful and harmful to ourselves and our relationship. However, with some motivation and the helpful vibrations of blue crystals, you can get over the mountains that you have placed in your path.

When looking to overcome your insecurities we suggest using Blue Apatite and Lapis Lazuli. You can also try crystals that other authors recommend such as Muscovite.


The Crystal Bible
Hall, Judy

(Cincinnati, OH:
Walking Stick Press, 2003)

Top photo by Nate Neelson on Unsplash

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