Self-Love and Relaxation Ritual

self-love and relaxation ritual

In this crazy, hectic, and busy world, it's important to carve a slice out just for yourself. Taking the time to spend some quiet time alone and honor yourself isn't done enough. So, here we're going to teach you how to do just that. If you can take 5-10 minutes out of your day, 3 times a week, for a self-love and relaxation ritual, you will be absolutely blown away at the results you'll receive. After even just one week, you will feel calmer, balanced, loved, and just more at ease. Stress, anxiety, and the demands of the day will all affect you less. You may even find that you sleep better.

The Things You'll Need and Why You Need Them

Here is a list of the items we highly recommend for the self-love and relaxation ritual.

Crystal Tea for Self-Love

Our Rose Quartz, Kunzite, and Lepidolite Tea for Self-love is the first recommended step of our ritual. This is a set of 20 USDA Certified Organic Tea bags infused with the crystalline energy of Rose Quartz, Kunzite, and Lepidolite. The three chosen crystals all offer love, healing, and improved self-worth. They're wonderful at healing any wounds the heart has suffered and increasing love and joy from all around.

If you're not a fan of tea, we recommend using a few drops of Rose Quartz Crystal Essence in your favorite beverage instead.

This will not only help create a warm, comfortable, and soothing moment, but it also brings powerful and potent crystal healing to you.

Kunzite Crystal

Kunzite is a beautiful crystal, pure in energy and joyful in nature. In palest pink to light violet hues, it is a Stone of Emotion, opening and connecting the heart to the mind and stimulating a healing communion between the two. Kunzite encourages one to release walls built around the heart for protection and to be receptive to the experience of unconditional and abundant love.

Kunzite is a powerful healer of the emotional body, particularly for those who have closed themselves off from life, or from others, to protect themselves emotionally. Its high vibrational energy encourages letting go of fears and sorrows that hold the heart to the past or the anxiety of the future and inspires being present in the perfection of the moment. It is the perfect crystal companion for our self-love and relaxation ritual.

Possible Alternatives: Rose Quartz, Pink Garnet, or Lepidolite

Sacred Space Crystal Candle

This is our Sacred Space Candle. It is a crystal energy candle crafted to cleanse and sanctify a space for meditation, gridding, or protection. The candle scent is a soothing sage that also works to purify the area you are working in. There is also a Smoky Quartz pendant attached. This helps by providing a protective barrier of energy around the user.

The aromatherapy from the candle also assists in our self-love and relaxation ritual. The sage essential oil used in the candle helps to relieve stress and works as a natural antidepressant.

Possible Alternatives: another candle with a white sage stick.

The Self-Love and Relaxation Ritual

sefl-love and relaxation ritual

This ritual can take as little as 5 minutes or as long as an hour. That is completely up to you, what you need, and how you're feeling. If you're not on a time constraint, let your mind, body, and heart be your guide.

  1. Prepare yourself a cup of crystal tea or another beverage with crystal healing energy. When it is ready, find yourself a quiet place to self-reflect and enjoy your beverage. This is important. If necessary, try using noise-canceling headphones. You can even put on some calming music.
  2. When you have found your ideal location, set up your Sacred Space Candle nearby and light it.
  3. Now it is time to hold your Kunzite crystal in your left hand while you sip on your tea. Feel the loving, healing, and warm nurturing energy swirling inside and out through your aura. The healing vibrations from the Kunzite are traveling up your left arm to soothe and heal the heart and Heart Chakra.
  4. When you are ready, set your tea down and place the Kunzite in your right hand. Now lift it up and hold it with your hand over your heart. Close your eyes and focus on taking full, deep, and cleansing breaths. In deeply through the nose to expand the chest and exhale through the mouth while extending your stomach.

Complete this self-love and relaxation ritual at least 3 times a week. You may find 5 minutes is all that you need or that 10-20 minutes makes you feel best. Follow your body's guidance!

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Kat Ohren

Kat is a Certified Crystal Master and Crystal Astrologist. She has been working with both crystals and astrology for over 20 years. She holds a Bachelor of Science degree in Information Sciences and Technology from Pennsylvania State University. Kat is a Florida native and has been with Crystal Vaults for over 10 years.

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