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The Top 10 Crystals for Women's Spiritual, Physical, and Emotional Health

Here I'll offer you a list of the top 10 crystals for women's spiritual, physical, mental, and emotional health. These crystals can help you relieve stress, increase happiness, reignite passion, bring emotional balance, and more. 

There never needs to be a reason to celebrate yourself or women in general. We celebrate women here at the Crystal Vaults every day! We are all working, some of us are wives, and some of us are mothers. While crystals can help everyone, in this list we want to focus specifically on the best crystals for women. If you haven't already, you can check out our Top 10 Crystals for Men, too. We're always happy to take your suggestions for Top 10 Crystal lists, as well. If you have one you'd like to send in, you can reach us at

While there are hundreds of crystal books you can look over to find the right one, I'm here to make it easy for you! Here is a list of the top 10 crystals for women's spiritual, physical, mental, and emotional health. These crystals can help you relieve stress, increase happiness, reignite passion, balance your emotions, and more. This by no means is an exhaustive list. The crystals listed below are the ones I've found that help me and other women best.


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This offers you the perfect "starter kit", so to speak, for crystal meditation to relieve your stress, increase your happiness, bring about inner peace, and boost your self-confidence.

I'm able to offer you this great deal for five days only! We're practically giving these aromatherapy crystal candles away since I believe in them that much! Hurry up and get your favorite candle or try a new one for 30% OFF with any purchase of the top ten crystals for women below.

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You can purchase any EarthSong Studios Aromatherapy Crystal Full-Size Candle you'd like, however, I'll also offer my personal recommendations below. I'll even include some beginners instructions below that for your first meditation with your new crystal and candle.

Top 10 Crystals for Women

(listed in no particular order)

1. Rose Quartz

rose quartz heart from the crystal vaultsThe fair and lovely Rose Quartz, with its gentle pink essence, is a stone of the heart, a Crystal of Unconditional Love. It carries a soft feminine energy of compassion and peace, tenderness, and healing, nourishment, and comfort. It speaks directly to the Heart Chakra, dissolving emotional wounds, fears, and resentments, and circulates a Divine loving energy throughout the entire aura. Reawakening the heart to its own innate love, it provides a deep sense of personal fulfillment and contentment, allowing one the capacity to truly give and receive love from others.

Rose Quartz is also a stone for those unable to experience the joy of living because of never having had love given to them, possibly missing the love and nurturing as a child that is vital for the development of security and a positive self-image. Rose Quartz is the healer for these internal wounds, erasing the primal imprints and reprogramming the heart to accept the infinite source of love that comes from within the self. Only after learning to give love to the self is it possible to truly love others.

Rose Quartz is such a healing and loving stone for women, it's hard to pinpoint just one attribute to highlight. This gentle yet powerful crystal helps us ease past pain and heartbreak while tenderly teaching us how to love ourselves. It encourages the nurturing of our own hearts and souls as well. This crystal just emanates pure love and can help you heal on many levels.


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A great Aromatherapy Crystal Candle to pair with Rose Quartz is
our Raspberry Sangria Crystal Candle.

2. Amber

amber from the crystal vaultsAmber is one of the world’s oldest and most coveted treasures, a “Gold of the Sea” intrinsically formed by light and life, preserved by time and washed up on the shores for humanity, a talisman of beauty, protection and renewal. It has been portrayed as drops of the sun, tears of the gods, hardened honey, and sunlight solidified and is as desired today as it was in the most ancient cultures.

Amber is a gentle stone that works especially well for hot-tempered women. It is an exceptional rubbing stone for discharging negative moods, relieving anxiety, or deflecting energy from others. It warms the more it is touched and generates a positive, uplifting current of energy. It is recommended to carry one in your pocket or purse, wear in jewelry, or use in rosary or prayer beads. You can also use Amber to purify any environment before use or to remove negative energy. This can be done by placing pieces of Amber around the space, spray as an elixir, or burn as incense. It also provides an effective screen after the area has been cleansed.

Amber heals and supports the emotional body by drawing off the negative energies that steal one’s optimism and drive for life and replaces them with an empowering frequency conducive to positive change. It is ideal for those battling suicidal tendencies, addictions, or who struggle with depression, anxiety or seasonal affective disorder to see light at the end of the tunnel. It can be a very uplifting and supportive stone for all women.


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A great Aromatherapy Crystal Candle to pair with Amber is
our Orange Blossom Crystal Candle.

3. Citrine

citrine from the crystal vaultsNatural Citrine is a premier stone of manifestation, imagination, and personal will. Carrying the power of the sun, it is warm and comforting, energizing and life-giving. It stimulates the chakras like the sunlight of spring, clearing the mind and stirring the soul to action. Its frequency awakens creativity and imagination and sustains the process of transforming dreams and wishes into tangible form. With its pure yellow energy, Citrine encourages fullness of life, fresh beginnings, and new pursuits.

Citrine is an excellent crystal for interpersonal relationships. It smooths family or group problems and promotes solutions and cohesiveness. It also helps in understanding and dealing with absorbed impressions from those around us. Carrying a Citrine attracts love and happiness, and guards against those who would break your heart. It is also an effective shield against spite and jealousy. Natural Citrine enhances physical stamina and energy, supports the endocrine system, and encourages proper metabolism. It is beneficial for Chronic Fatigue Syndrome and may aid in reversing degenerative disease. It is thought to balance the thyroid and facilitate the diminishment of growths. As an elixir, Citrine relieves menstrual and menopausal symptoms, such as hot flashes, hormone imbalance and the alleviation of fatigue.

Citrine opens the higher mind to accept joy in one's life, releasing anger and negative feelings, deep-seated fears and destructive tendencies. An excellent crystal for overcoming depression, Citrine reduces the sensitivity to criticism and inspires creativity and self-expression. It raises self-esteem, and by letting go of the past, allows one to move forward optimistically, enjoying new experiences and explorations. It can assist women physically with their menstrual cycle and menopause as well as depression and self-esteem issues. Another benefit is the energy boost that it often brings. It's definitely a wonderful addition to have for any woman. As a side note, in ancient lore Citrine was reputed to make men handsome and intelligent and sterile women fertile and happy.


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A great Aromatherapy Crystal Candle to pair with Citrine is
our Citrus Delight Crystal Candle.

4. Almandine Garnet

garnet from crystal vaultsAlmandine is known as a Stone of Tangible Truth. It assists in manifesting a realistic version of the physical world. Its energy helps alleviate worry, panic and fear, and assists in maintaining a calm connection to the present. It allows one to perceive the absolute support of the Universe. Its intellectual properties also make it useful to those exploring the fields of astronomy, astrology, and mathematics.

It is an excellent crystal for fertility, sexual potency, and libido. It supports recuperation after injury, as well as the health of the ovaries and testes. It may help with pain, especially during childbirth. Emotionally, Almandine cultivates a sense of security, safety, and abundance. It is associated with the First Chakra and has the healing energy to help arouse the kundalini and keep those energies grounded. It is a stone of physical love and relationships, and a spiritual stone of psychic protection. It increases willpower and resistance to all things negative.

Garnet can act as a strong help to balance the energy system, stimulate desires and uplift your attitude. As a balancer stone, Garnet can prevent fears of insecurity and even money losses. They're lucky stones: lucky for love, success, and goals. Use Garnet to increase your positivity and popularity, thus enhancing your personal self-esteem. As an energy stone, it can encourage success in business and business relationships. It is a wonderful executive gem, especially for women. Garnet has even been credited with aiding widows in finding a new husband. After mourning for too long, Garnet helps to regain the spirit, calming sadness, and emotional pain, helping those who have gone through great despair get back on their feet and become seductive again. Perhaps the same could be true for widowers as well.

As you can see, Almandine Garnet can be a great stone for many different women. It can assist with fertility and sexual libido physically. While emotionally it can help widows, especially with grieving. Also, businesswomen can also benefit from keeping this stone nearby in the workplace. It is even said to discourage sexism in the workplace.


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A great Aromatherapy Crystal Candle to pair with Almandine Garnet is
our Base Chakra Crystal Candle.

5. Amethyst

amethyst point from crystal vaultsAmethyst is still a remarkable stone of spirituality and contentment, known for its metaphysical abilities to still the mind and inspire an enhanced meditative state. Its inherent high frequency purifies the aura of any negative energy or attachments, and creates a protective shield of Light around the body, allowing one to remain clear and centered while opening to spiritual direction. Amethyst stimulates the Third Eye, Crown, and Etheric Chakras enhancing cognitive perception as well as accelerating the development of intuitive and psychic ability. It initiates wisdom and greater understanding and is a stone of comfort for those grieving the loss of a loved one.

Amethyst is especially supportive of the emotional body, bringing those who are overworked, overstressed or overwhelmed back to center. It eases the mental anxieties that lead to physical tension and headaches and is a great crystal to calm those who tend to be hot-headed and easily angered. Amethyst is also one of the best crystals for meditation. To relax the system and increase awareness, hold single Amethyst crystals or small clusters in the left hand (termination towards the arm) during meditation to draw Amethyst energy into the body.

Because Amethyst initiates wisdom and greater understanding, it is a comforting crystal for those grieving the loss of a loved one. Its presence communicates that there is no death, only transitioning and changing of forms. It encourages the release of sorrow and rejoicing in a loved one’s spirit being freed from the confinement of the physical body. Amethyst increases creativity, intuition, and facilitates a deeper connection with the self. It can be perfect for women who feel overstressed, angry, lost, or just plain worn out.


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A great Aromatherapy Crystal Candle to pair with Amethyst is
our Crown Chakra Crystal Candle.

6. Jasper

crocodile jasper from crystal vaultsKnown as the “Supreme Nurturer,” Jasper is a stone of grounding and stability, providing comfort and security, strength and healing. Each stone is a masterpiece of the Creator, bold and primitive in style, solid and earthy in form, with a warm, harmonious energy that resonates with the primal self. Its presence balances the aura to a level of wholeness and peace and acts as a reminder that one is not here on the physical plane simply for oneself, but to bring joy and substance to others.

Wear or carry Jasper to alleviate stress and induce tranquility. Its cleansing effect eliminates negative energy and stabilizes the aura. It makes an ideal worry or rubbing stone for soothing the nerves and increasing one’s focus, and is a wonderful stone for banishing nightmares or harmful thoughts. Jasper makes an excellent diet stone as well, lending emotional support and strength in self-discipline, as well as boosting physical energy levels. Its slow, steady vibration helps avoid extremes and encourages perseverance. It is also useful for long periods of fasting.

Physically, Jasper is believed to increase fertility and is conducive to happy pregnancies. It is a powerful aphrodisiac and a regenerator of sperm, especially when it is combined with Garnet or Topaz. Emotionally, Jasper provides a strengthening energy for the emotional body, easing stress and producing a calm stability. For those sensitive to its vibration, it creates a special aura, a pleasant sensation as it irradiates throughout the body. It invites feelings of compassion and patience, humility, and even generosity. It can be helpful to women who are pregnant or trying to conceive. If you're having trouble grounding yourself, feeling out of sorts, or need some balance and tranquility, meditation with Jasper is ideal.


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A great Aromatherapy Crystal Candle to pair with Jasper is
our Autumn Equinox Balance & Change Crystal Candle.

7. Onyx

onyx from crystal vaultsOnyx grounds and stabilizes the emotional body, bringing strength in difficult or confusing circumstances and during times of tremendous mental or physical stress. It calms nervousness, quells anxiety and fear, soothes tempers and restores rational thinking and self-control. It emanates the energy of self-mastery, imparting self-confidence, focus, ease in one’s surrounding, and the gift of wise decision making. It lets flighty personalities move into a more stable way of life, and helps one explore new ideas, as well as to carry out even dreary tasks to completion.

Draw on Onyx for physical strength after a long illness, prolonged work project, demanding exercise or weight loss program, or any situation that depletes one’s resources. It aids the retention of energies rather than allowing them to dissipate, enabling one to build up vigor and vitality, stamina, and focus. Onyx boosts self-confidence and assertion while bringing reason to passion, and is an excellent stone to carry into conflict situations where a cool head is needed.

You can wear or carry Onyx as a personal amulet of protection to keep senses keen and instincts sharp, whether traversing a desolate street at night, fighting fears associated with bullying or terrorism, or as a protective shield during psychic endeavors. Place an Onyx in the workplace to deflect others’ negative thoughts or criticism, and for effective defense against those who are manipulative or argumentative. Rest an Onyx on a nightstand with the intent of protection against nightmares and fears associated with the dark.

In ancient lore, Onyx was placed on the stomach of women in labor to reduce pain. In modern times, women can benefit from Onyx from its high energy and ability to increase stamina. It is a wonderful stone for professional women or women looking to lose weight and get healthier. It brings excellent discipline.


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A great Aromatherapy Crystal Candle to pair with Onyx is
our Mansion of the Hearth Crystal Candle.

8. Amazonite

amazonite from crystal vaultsLike waters deep and ancient, Amazonite beckons in captivating shades of turquoise-green, promising to soothe the spirit and calm the soul. Its energy is as powerful as the river for which it is named and as bold as the legendary women warriors with whom it is connected, yet it tempers aggression, tames the irrational, and stills the disquiet. It provides harmony and balance. It is particularly rejuvenating to the Heart and Throat Chakras, enhancing loving communication on all levels. It balances one’s masculine/feminine energies as well as many aspects of the personality.

Amazonite increases self-esteem, especially in women, and reduces tendencies to self-neglect. It enhances the ability to communicate more effectively by identifying how one’s words have created the current reality, and how to change one’s vocabulary to reflect a higher, more aligned reality. It also empowers one to set appropriate boundaries, inwardly in self-discipline, and with others in establishing healthy relationships. As a support stone, Amazonite aids in overcoming loneliness, and has been credited with making married life happier.

Amazonite is a wonderful healer for the emotional body. It soothes trauma and calms the mind, alleviates worry and fear, and directs anger and irritability into a more positive action. It regulates the aggressive aspects of one’s personality and urges the mind to seek emotional balance. It is an ideal crystal for women in many ways. Its ability to soothe and balance the emotional body is like no other. It also raises our self-esteem and assists us in more effectively expressing our needs to others.


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A great Aromatherapy Crystal Candle to pair with Amazonite is
our Throat Chakra Crystal Candle.

9. Red Coral

red coral from crystal vaultsAt the beginning of the 1st millennium, there was a significant trade in Coral between the Mediterranean and India, where it was highly prized as a substance believed to be endowed with mysterious sacred properties. Among the Romans, branches of Coral were hung around children's necks to preserve them from danger from the outside, and the substance had many medicinal virtues attributed to it. The belief in Coral's potency as a charm continued throughout the Middle Ages and early in 20th century Italy it was worn as a protection from the evil eye and by women as a cure for infertility.

Modern practitioners report that Red Coral can promote harmony with the natural forces of the earth, and help one align with natural processes over which one has no control. It is also reported to aid on in understanding the need to resist constant pressure and actually thrive from it. It is also a talisman that helps builders, craftsmen, and artists grow in their profession. As a Builder crystal, Red Coral helps in development efforts, in learning new skills and knowledge, and in building new relationships.

Red Coral is associated with the area between the First (Base) and Second (Sacral) Chakras. It is used for spiritual healing of issues related to conflicts between emotions and one's basic instincts. Use this to focus the Universal Life Force on finding the strength to deal with the complexities of the modern world and bring balance to your life. Red Coral is considered to be "The Blood of Mother Earth" by Native Americans and is used by many Tibetan women for menstruation and fertility. Red Coral can also be used by women who need balance in their life, especially between the head and the heart. It's very inspiring for businesswomen in the workplace as well.


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A great Aromatherapy Crystal Candle to pair with Red Coral is
our Mansion of the Dawn Crystal Energy Candle.

10. Sapphire

sapphire from crystal vaultsThe magnificent and holy Sapphire, in all its celestial hues, is a stone of wisdom and royalty, of prophecy and Divine favor. It is forever associated with sacred things and considered the gem of gems, a jewel steeped in the history and lore of nearly every religion. To the ancient and medieval world, Sapphire of heavenly blue signified the height of celestial hope and faith and was believed to bring protection, good fortune, and spiritual insight. It was a symbol of power and strength, but also of kindness and wise judgment.

Star Sapphire, especially in paler shades, is a symbol of wise and honest leadership, and a good stone for businesswomen and female entrepreneurs who wish to succeed without compromising integrity. It is also an ideal tool for anyone needing assistance in grounding their ideas into reality and who requires extra energy to bring things through to completion. Sapphire frees us from our “inner prisons” and psychic suffering that can cause us to shut down emotionally. It can be an effective aid in treatments for neuroses or even psychosis. Sapphire releases depression and lightens the mood. It brings calm and focus to the mind, and restores balance within the body. It also assists those who are easily swayed by the opinions of others. It promotes a fuller understanding of the self and assists one in becoming more secure in their own opinions and knowledge, and in expressing those truths to others.

Star Sapphires of any hue are excellent healing crystals for those with an inferiority complex, are afraid of socializing or speaking out, or who have been told they were useless. They also lend support in following a childhood dream or ambition that seems almost impossible. Sapphires can be powerful for any woman. It eases depression, increases happiness, reduces stress, induces tranquility, allows us to focus, and even be more persuasive. It's a wonderful crystal for women of any age and all walks of life.


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A great Aromatherapy Crystal Candle to pair with Sapphire is
our Tropical Isle Crystal Candle.

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Beginners Meditation Instructions


Here is a great meditation to start with once you receive your crystals and candles. If you're a member of the Crystal Inner Circle, check out the Crystal Meditation community and forum if you have any questions for me or any of our gurus!

  1. 1. Find a relaxing environment, free of clutter, and preferably dimly lit (or only lit by natural light).
  2. 2. Once you have found an ideal location, light your candle(s). You can also burn any incense or sage stick and add any essential oils you'd like at this time (optional).
  3. 3. Find a place to take a seat, hold the crystal(s) in your hands (or place over the appropriate chakra), and begin. While many prefer to sit on the floor with crossed legs, your comfort is what is most important. You can sit in your favorite chair or any way you find comfortable. A pain in your back or legs falling asleep is not worth it and will likely break your concentration.
  4. 4. Once you have found a comfortable place to sit and the candle is burning, it is time to close your eyes and relax. If music or guided meditations help you get there, by all means, use what you need. Here is a link to a specific guided meditation I enjoy.
  5. 5. Breathe in through your nose, inhaling the sweet scent of fresh air and your candle, and then out through your mouth. You don’t have to think much during this time. Clear your mind and let the thoughts and images come to you.
  6. 6. Whatever you come across during your meditation session, write it down! Even if it is just brief flashes of images or things that seem trivial, write down everything you can remember. This will give you something to bounce off of later and you’d be surprised how quickly you start noticing a story weaving together.


Article by Kat Ohren

Kat Ohren is a Certified Crystal Practioner, Crystal Astrologer, and Certified Crystal Healer.



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