Crystals For Marriage
Marriage is a bond, a promise that we make to our spouse to love them through sickness and health, until death do you part. Sometimes though, love isn’t the problem. You can still love your spouse but still have trouble communicating, getting along, or just feel like you are at different places in your lives. Wherever the problem may be, the love, deep down, hasn’t gone away. While marriage counseling is something we would recommend, why not also help strengthen the bond with your spouse by using crystals? Some healing crystals are perfect for healing cracks in our marriage. Even if there are no cracks, these crystals can help bring you two closer together and feel stronger as a couple.
If we were looking for any crystal to bring joy, closeness, and togetherness between people, it would be an orange hue. Orange is one of the most amazing color. It is one of nature’s most powerful colors. It is a color that nature uses on a vast canvas. Joy is a pure emotion, an elusive one, but a heartfelt one. Often as people grow older, they lose the capacity for experiencing pure joy. It can be a simple delight or a deep, lasting feeling. If something seems to be missing but you can’t really describe it, perhaps a bit of orange mixed in your daily life is needed.
Use Orange Crystals
Orange Colored Crystals Bring You Joy, Friendship, Pleasure, and Family Togetherness
Orange is a happy, outgoing, and sharing color. It brings things and people together. It integrates the parts of our communal lives. It is the “home stone,” the “village stone”, and the “community stone.” This aspect is an important part of the orange color ray and how it can help bring your marriage closer together. However, it is in darker hues of orange that the benefits begin to focus on marriage. Darker shades of orange deepen the sense of belonging and home. If you are lucky enough to find a powerful deep orange stone, use it as a home stone by placing it centrally in your house to ensure the hospitality of home and hearth. To keep a family happy together, a team working well, or a relationship united, a dark orange crystal is perfect.
Like the unexpected fire of a sunset, or the first flash of autumn brilliance, Carnelian captivates. A glassy, translucent stone, it is an orange-colored variety of Chalcedony, a mineral of the Quartz family. Orange and red Carnelian are important crystals to use for love, and for the consummation of love. It may help in rekindling passions that may have faded in an otherwise loving relationship. Carnelian alleviates jealousy and possessiveness in relationships, and is helpful in overcoming sexual anxieties, and it is also beneficial with male mid-life crisis.
Another crystal that can help with your marriage is Orange Sapphire. Orange Sapphires bring the wisdom of loving creation from the heart to the world. Their joyful orange energies activate the Sacral Chakra, the seat of one’s sexual energy and the fountain of creativity. They align the will to create with the heart, encouraging one to revel in life’s sensory experiences and in the expression of ideas and artistic truths. They also bring a vital energy to the emotions, allowing one to be more outgoing and dynamic, playful and full of joy. They allow one to better express their feelings to others.
Carnelian is a stabilizing crystal, perfect for anchoring in the present. Its high energy helps restore lost vitality and motivation, and stimulates creativity for new pursuits. It improves concentration and removes extraneous thoughts in daydreamers, and during meditation. This stone also protects against envy, rage, and resentment – yours, or from others, and encourages a love of life.
Sapphire is a stone of spiritual power and astuteness, bringing prosperity and helping to sustain the gifts of life. It tends to focus, emanate and radiate its energy in fulfilling dreams and desires of the consciousness, even without conscious initiation.
What Authors Say About Crystals
Judy Hall suggests Heliodor which is primarily a meditation stone used to bring clarity of thought to decision making.
Psychologically, Heliodor enhances courage, relieves stress, and calms the mind. Emotionally, Heliodor reawakes love in those who are married but jaded.
Michael Gienger recommends Rose Quartz which is a stone that helps us seek balance and flexibility.
Apatite instills motivation and drive, helping us to live a life full of variety. It also helps with apathy. It encourages liveliness, helps with exhaustion, and mobilizes energy reserves.
Robert Simmons advocates Lithium Quartz which is a crystal of dreams, intuition, and luxury.
Lithium Quartz crystals can benefit those seeking harmony in their various relationships, from friends and family to spouses and lovers. In fact, one might experiment with a small crystal under each partner’s pillow for enhancement of both intimacy and passion.
Marriage isn’t always easy. There comes hard times and happy times and sometimes the hard times last longer than they should. If you find yourself in this type of situation, don’t despair. You can use the power of dark orange crystals to help you rebuild and/or strengthen your relationship. It can bring more love and joy into your marriage as well as open the lines of verbal and sexual communication. We recommend such crystals as Carnelian and Orange Sapphire. You can also try crystals that other authors suggest such as Heliodor , Rose Quartz, Lithium Quartz.
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